Hanging hats in a country like Europe is more of a privilege. Glorious cultures, picturesque sceneries, amiable people and a spellbinding life in nutshell – Europe is truly heaven on earth. In such a majestic land, what are your plans for the big day knocking around the corners? February 14th I mean! Well, I am making special arrangements to spend a starry night with my beau by the side of a gorgeous lake with some lip-smacking wine and a fine-standard four course dinner. My wheelchair won’t be a problem for sure.
Ever since I have been putting up with a damaged spine condition, my parents were always worried thinking about my future. I am sure most of you (combatting some kind of physical ability) can relate to this. Watchful eyes, sorrowful faces and those sympathizing gestures – don’t you feel terribly freaked out? I did but then Mike happened. Mike is my boyfriend by the way. I didn’t have to hop places in my wheelchair or sit by a posh café. Online disabled dating in Europe did the work for me.
We started with simple chats which continued to longer conversations and the final moment when he stole my heart and went head over heels for me. It’s just not Mike I have in life. There are gorgeous 5 good friends I have earned using disabled dating in Europe. The sites are truly a big hit. Specially designed for us who find it a bit hard to keep at pace with regular able-bodied people, disability dating sites kick-sup the confidence in us and makes us just as capable as any Tom, Dick or Harry!
Don’t shy away any longer just because you are physically weak in some areas. There are hundreds of people who rarely cares about disability. It’s the heart that matters the most and your personality that casts an impression. Giving up on a beautiful life is no good deal. Try sprucing it up instead and see how things change from ordinary to extraordinary.
As a newbie in the line of online dating, a few good tips could come handy here.
- Never hop dating sites with your heart on sleeves and trust up for grabs – After signing up, you might be getting umpteen requests. Shoot conversations with as many as you can but don’t fall for just any. Love at first sight could prove quite risky when dating is virtual. Talk and know the person before falling for him.
- Leave no room for sympathy – Sob stories are not always welcome. Remember, it’s a disability dating site and mostly you will bump into people with physical ailments. You don’t want to end up rubbing salt on burns by talking about your unfortunate accident or disability over and over again. It’s like begging for sympathy that you were once irritated about. A little mention is okay. Take a leap forward and talk about your interests.
- Share personal details only when you are 100% confident about the person you are dating – Do you want to put up with unnecessary harassments? If not, spilling your personal details to any Tom, Dick or Harry is not ideal. Once you are sure about the person you are in chats with, taking the risk is worth it.