My weak spine puts me at a threatening disadvantage with women – well that’s what bothered me a couple of years back. I do not look extraordinarily handsome like Brad Pitt or Robert Pattinson. No sexy eyes coupled with rugged look and cut smile defines my physical appearance quite yet. Even then, I have a happy fiancé in my arms who means the world to me.
Spines are the box of worms for me while limb is her area of misery. With both our weaknesses on boards, we make a happy couple with shared responsibilities. How cool is that? Well, I do know a lot of men struggling to get a grip on life. Reason? Physical disabilities that has thrown them into a world of pain! My advice – stop mourning about what’s already happened and look into the brighter side of things instead!
I also get a lot of questions asking how to take first step towards a beautiful change. Well guess what? Simple step like signing up for disabled dating sites can do the trick. Yes, it’s unbelievably cool and opens you a world of people who could be your potential friend, love mate or anything else.
Share what’s on your mind, talk your hearts out and see what life has in store for you, virtual though, disabled dating sites can be a life-changer. Do you what’s the best part here – there are no watchful eyes looking out for you all the time. Doubling up the perks, there is absolutely no one to judge you or sympathize with you either. These sites make you akin to people who are also looking for a change in life.
Romance, growing chemistry, unexpected kinship – there are lots up for grabs with these sites in use. Don’t fray away. Take a big leap and do something real for yourselves. However, following a few tips could save you from heartbreak!
- Know who you are talking to – Anyone with an enticing profile or a kind heart, as reckoned after a couple of chats can steal your breath away. After years of loneliness, it is very common to go nuts about anyone who is being nice to you.
Well, here is the twist then – tons of cruisers are members of the disabled dating clubs too. Wondering what’s their intention? Playing with emotions, taking advantage of you and your assets are a few common interests they have. So get acquainted with the person well before spilling beans about your whole life and falling for her.
- Plan a date but don’t go lovey-dovey straightaway – If relationships with no strings attached don’t work for you, do not plan dates at serene isolated locations with someone you’ve had the hots for after talking in chat rooms. Stop rushing into relationships. Give it a little time to mature. If the person on the other chair equally adores you, he or she will wait and take time before committing and promising bonds of love.
- Be transparent about the weakness in you but don’t sob about it – Don’t try and fake it when there’s a budding chemistry. Being transparent upfront will save you from the horrors of blame and heartbreaks in future. Having a soft corner for someone you’ve met online is okay but molding yourself into a fake personality as per his or her preferences is absolutely worthless.